I’m 22 and this is mine and my fiancé’s first pregnancy I’m 14 weeks and I’m feeling very stressed and overwhelmed. Once the baby comes I plan on taking time off of work and staying home with the baby. Since I’ve been pregnant His mother brought down an old bassinet, sends me pictures of baby powder, and etc saying she’s getting the baby room at her house ready (they live like 5 minutes away from us). The only difference between her and my mom is I’ve had my mom go to one drs appointment. Then lately my fiancé has been telling me I’m not doing enough to make his mom feel apart of the pregnancy. I sent her ultrasound updates and I’ve asked her to be apart of the baby shower. Lastly, every day she calls saying she feels like she’s never going to see the baby. I told his mother I’m going to make it a point to go over there at least once a week after the baby comes. Now she calls him every day saying she needs more visitation rights and once a week isn’t going to be enough. I just feel very overwhelmed.