Should I ask?!!

So my crush and I have been hanging for a little over a month now. We vibe really great with one another. We see each other at least once a week. We laugh talk and all that great stuff.

Here’s the thing. We sometimes talk about our past dealings with people just see what the other has done or what not to do. So he mentioned after a girl and him were having sex idk how long they were doing it but he said she asked him what are they now and he responded nothing...

So my biggest thing is...we are about approach two months in this little thing and when I tell you it’s HARD for me to catch feelings it’s really hard but I have admitted to myself that yep I like him. Of course I would love to see us be more but every time I’m about to ask I think about that last situation he was in.

So should I ask him for my sake to know whether I need to take it for what it is or just go with the flow of things and see?

I’m just torn!!! I haven’t really liked anyone since my breakup with my 6 year boyfriend in 2016. So idkkkkk!!!