Dominance

How can I be more dominant with my boyfriend during sex and when I give him a hand-job or blowjob? We usually switch recessive and dominant roles, and he likes when I’m in that dominant role sometimes, but apparently I’m not dominant enough.

Any tips or things I can do (since I wonder what else I could do). It would be much appreciated!!

P.s: I usually tell him what to do or hold his head or sort of grab his hair, or have my hand around his neck slightly squeezing (I DONT WANT TO HURT HIM THOUGH 😂😂😂well it won’t really since I wouldn’t be too rough), or make him tell me what he wants, but yeah!!