My husband and I ALWAYS fight about the same thing. And I need opinions or another voice/advice because this is clearly not being resolved and I don’t understand it. I’m a stay at home mom of our one year old son. My husband is in the air force and works 7-4 and then goes to the gym from 4-6 and then I go to the gym from 6-7:30. He complains when I ask him/ claims I boss him around to do something when we are both home at 7:40. For instance, our son goes to bed at 8. I asked him if he could put him to bed since he doesn’t see his son all day and I figured he would like that time. But he stays on his phone looking at something while our son is getting grumpy. And then throws in my face how he wants to relax. But he is a father and STILL has these responsibilities. I also might admit I am an impatient person...I am working on it. But my husband is completely on the other spectrum so we clash a bit. We fight because I ask him to do things and all he wants to do is relax but then also claims the house work is 50/50. It’s so frustrating because I also feel like I do a lot all day, although our son does take a nap and uses that against me.