Babyshower or not..

It’s my first baby and I reallyyyy wanted one. I’m due in August but wanted it in June in a hall. I hate being outside especially since I’ll be fat lol anyways. I’ve started Calling for halls and most are booked or don’t work out somehow. I don’t want to overspend either and at this point it’s just me planning. Everyone who said would help isn’t really. I’m debating whether to just use the money to get all our baby’s stuff. My mom and his parents are getting the big stuff (crib, stroller, car seat, play pin) I just don’t really wanna stress over a babyshower.