Is he raping me?

So my boyfriend and i are stranded in a different state because his car broke down. We are staying in a hotel and he’s been taking his bad mood out on me all day. He’s been pretty much ignoring me for the past hour and went to the bathroom. He came out and was like “bend over”. I told him no multiple times but he proceeded to continue taking my pants off. I told him no again and he literally just stuck it in. I keep telling him something is wrong and it’s painful and uncomfortable to have sex. (i have went to the obgyn and all the std/sti tests came back negative) Yet he still continues. It happens all the time. Sometimes he will get pissed and guilt trip me into it, others he will just ignore me and keep doing it. I hate it. We will have sex and he will want more an hour later. It pisses me off and makes me kind of sad. He makes me feel obligated every time he wants anything. I feel like an object.

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Mi

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Girl, why are you with him?? A man who loves you will not go against your wishes. Reconsider your relationship. You can do better

Ky

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Yes sis, in my opinion that would be considered rape

ar

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Yes. Please stop posting and call the police.

Gr

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When you say NO, and he forces his penis in you, that is rape. Your EX BOYFRIEND is a rapist.

J

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Doesn’t matter if your a couple no is no! Leave or even tell law enforcement!

De

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LEAVE HIMMMM THAT IS RAPE

Am

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Yes. It's rape amd he knows it.

Je

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Unless you stated beforehand that you wanted to do role play where he is a rapist and you’re the victim, then I would say that this is 100% rape.

El

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YES. Do you have someone who can help you safely out of the situation?

Na

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Most definitely YES it is rape. What a horrible human being. I would leave him and call the cops. Whether it’s your husband you’ve been married too for 10 years, your boyfriend or a complete stranger. If you say no and they carry on anyway then they don’t have your consent and it is rape!