So I have masterbated before but haven't used a dildo. I'm 14 weeks pregnant and decided to get one for a few reasons that I wont go into detail about. (Simetimes you just need to please yourself) any how... got the package in the mail and hubby saw it today and asked what it was and why I had it. I'm like "to masterbate!" Now he didn't get mad and yell and we didn't argue but he did seem a little upset that I got one. I simply said "sometimes I may not want to have sex so I use that" and he said "do u watch porn to while.u do it?" And I said "well I haven't used it yet but I have watched it yes!" He kinda laughed and said "omg" and I said "well u jerk off and watch porn when u do it so why is it differant for me!?" And we both kinda just laughed. I'm just wondering if other girls on here masterbate and if ur man knows or not and if they are ok with it!!?