New born experience

Hi everyone, I do not have kids yet, but I am TTC. Everyone who knows I’m TTC, try to give me their advice or tell me their experience on being pregnant, birthing, or having a new born. All I hear is negative stuff so far. Look. I am well aware that being pregnant, birthing, or having a new born has many challenges. These « negative » comments are truly having an effect on me wanting to have kids. Not one positive thing came up in our conversations. Is this really so bad? Isn’t there at least a few positive things regarding pregnancy, birthing or having a new born. Please share positive stories ❤️