I lost our baby at 6w3d exactly a week before Christmas. I’ve been struggling since then with mental health, significantly more because I live where we haven’t had sunlight in months.

Three of my coworkers are pregnant. One is almost 30 weeks, one is 20 weeks and one is 19 weeks. Two have had <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> and one multiple miscarriages and a high risk pregnancy so they understand infertility struggle.

I am having such a hard time, especially with the gal who’s 19 weeks- she did <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a>, her husband is sterile. She is due exactly one week before my estimated LMP was. She was struggling for 7 years before the discovered the infertility and then they did <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> to conceive- obviously I’m very excited for her.

My issue is she will not stop talking about the fact she’s pregnant. To anyone, multiple people are getting annoyed by it. It’s all we hear, every conversation turns back to her and her pregnancy. The worst part is in the last week she cannot stop complaint about how awful it is and her growing pains and all other symptoms.

I am glad she’s having a baby but there are multiple times a week where I’m on the verge of tears because she cannot stop talking about her pregnancy, her pains, etc. her and all my coworkers know I lost our baby, they’ve all been incredibly supportive and even approached me about how I feel about this certain coworker bringing it up non-stop.

I don’t want to stop her happiness- I know she’s had a VERY long journey and I’m so happy for her but it hurts so much, especially as each month goes by and I’m not conceiving again (yes it’s only three cycles but each cycles is getting harder and harder for me mentally)