As we all know stress can effect our periods and our sex life. The difference being we as women can still have sex even if we are stressed. It won’t effect the way we preform. Perhaps we don’t orgasm but we could still get pregnant. It’s not the same for men. MY DH (love him dearly) is currently going through some stress. We attempted to BD last night, unsuccessfully and again this morning, unsuccessfully. It’s rather hard to admit all this to your OB... Some months never a problem at all. We could have 3 month not one single unsuccessful time. Then it hit. Here I am in tears in the bathroom pretending it’s all okay. In reality I’m dying inside because we still don’t have children. Life is going by and rather rapidly and we are getting to the age where we might have to give up on kids because women can’t conceive forever.... Men can but not women. My ovulation window is approaching rapidly and I’m terrified I’ll miss it due to him being stressed. Given it’s literally NOTHING in our home life. He has no chores or duties to fulfill here. I take care of all the cooking and cleaning, laundry and errands. It’s just something he’s gone through our whole marriage and prior. Refuses to see a dr but we will get through it. Hopefully.

Any women out there experience the same? Not the low sex drive but HIS inability to orgasm at times?

No rude comments please.