Second baby shower

So I have a 2 yr old daughter and I’m expecting our baby boy May 8th. I had a shower with her and I don’t want to do another showe cuz I think it’s sorta tacky BUT I want to do SOMETHING to celebrate. And I’m not looking for gifts because I have all the big baby items already and I’m set with boys clothes (two people offered hand-me-downs...like big boxes and I have plenty of really adorable like new baby boy clothes in every size til like 2T!)

And yet... I have lots of friends and family excited about this little guy.

Some ideas - host a big co-Ed game night/pot luck and be like “no gifts please but bring a snack to pass!”

If so, I’m trying to think of what some fun group games would be. And a problem we have is not all our friends really know eachother either...

I also thought about going out dancing with my girlfriends or something and coming back to my place for some late night treats after dancing or something? Idk... or before we go dancing?

Idk, I don’t want to really spend much on some big ol party. But i would like to do something fun with friends or something before the baby comes. Now I’m leaning towards the going out dancing idea... AH IDK WHAT TO DO