Thoughts👀

So my boyfriend and I have been dating a year in june! For the most part it’s great. We’ve had a few bumps here and there. I’m 24 he’s 25. I have a daughter from a previous relationship.

My boyfriend and I just met when I was 23 so he didn’t know me before.

I was WILD in high school and made some bad choices I can admit.

I decided after high school to value myself and have self respect.

Then becoming a mother even helped me more because I have this beautiful little girl looking at me.

Well last night we were on the phone just talking about past stories and I was talking about something from when I was 16 and he was quiet and his response was “you’re a slut”

UM excuse me?!

How dare you use a present term like that when I have worked hard to change myself. How dare you judge me 8 years later for choices I made as a teenager. I should feel comfortable talking you, exchanging stories and experiences but that caught me off guard. I didn’t say anything I just said I was going to sleep and got off the phone.

We talked this morning like nothing happened but it’s on my mind.

How do I bring it up and let him know he really did hurt my feelings??