hi so apparently it’s controlling if someone does this.

here’s a made up conversation

“hey babe. do you mind letting me know where you’re going or when you leave ? just so i know if anything happens to you that’s where you’ll be?”

“yeah sure no problem. i would want the same as well”

because like i don’t see the problem. i never would have thought it was controlling to ask somebody where they’re going or asking them to let you know when they leave the house.

there’s no other information to this “convo” that’s literally all of it. and especially if the feelings mutual like he would like me to let him know.

any thoughts ?