I love my kids but I don’t like my kids...

I’m feeling overwhelmed and I guess you can say upset/angry. I love my kids but I don’t like my kids. I have a 2 and 1 year old and they are just so bad. I try to give them all the love in the world with some discipline and they still are misbehaving. I have them on the weekend and I get excited to wake up and be with them but 5 min in they start misbehaving or getting into something but pretty much driving me insane !!!! It’s sad that I can’t last two days without wanting to rip my hair out and scream. Obviously my kid is now in the terrible 2’s and now my 1 yr old is learning from him. It’s hard to be loving and do fun activities with them when they just throw tantrums for no reason and don’t appreciate us playing together. There’s a lot of no, whining, hitting, and screaming. After talking to his daycare teacher she said all the kids are doing that and they are trying to get it under control. Like I said I love my kids but I don’t like them right now. I’m just an overwhelmed, feeling defeated mom looking for advice.