THIS SPOKE TO ME.

"God... I'm smart. I never thought I would end up in something like this. It happened so slow, I stopped talking to Coworkers and friends he didnt like, then my family didnt understand- They got worried, so I just brushed them off and eventually stopped talking to them, too. And then my circle got smaller and smaller and smaller and smaller until all I had was him. He told me I was crazy and I believed him, because he knows me so well he can zero in on an insecurity and make an argument turn on a dime and now it's my fault, it's my fault, it's my fault again. I'm awalys the one that's wrong. When he started cheating it was barely a surprise. He told me it was my fault and I actually believed him. How did I believe him?"

"Because he was good to you in the beginning. And on the good days. Youre not stupid we didnt fall for someone who cheated on us we fell for someone who made us laugh and feel wanted and seen. He is brilliant and charming and persuasive and the good outweighed the bad. Until It didnt."

"People arent all bad... It would be much easier if they were"