Is it wrong..?

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Is it wrong that my boyfriend keeps saying he wants a baby with me, sets a date to start trying and wants to start planning, but then changes his mind 2-3 days later and doesn’t want a baby anymore?? Having a baby is something I’ve always looked forward to in life and Now I feel like he’s just playing with my head and emotions..

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How about have him put a ring on it first?

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It's wrong of him to play with your emotions like that. He's really just showing you how immature and NOT ready he really is. Having a baby is more than just having a baby. It's bringing a person into the world. It's a lifetime commitment that doesn't end when the kid turns 18. It's their life, grandchildren, it's everything. My advise, don't make a baby with a person that changes his mind every couple of days. That alone tells you everything you need to know.

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He’s absolutely not ready to be a father and this should be a red flag for you.
Do not try and have a baby with him right now. You need to have a serious talk about this!

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Don’t have a baby with a boyfriend. Wait till he’s a HUSBAND. This fool is playing with your emotions and isn’t ready for a baby.

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Thank you everybody for the advice.. we broke things off and decided to go our own ways.

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Yes it's wrong. You need to talk to him, and until he's serious, you don't have that conversation, or set dates or whatever.

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Don’t have a baby with him. He is too indecisive. I’m not going to tell you to get married either though. A baby and marriage are both huge decisions that require some serious thought. Marriages fail, relationships fail. Babies need a lot.

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A couple years ago in my relationship my fiance did something somewhat Similar he was fairly back and forth on the idea of trying to have a child but it was because he wasnt 100% ready to have a child yet we weren't nearly as stable as we should have been. I'm not saying what he is doing is fine it's not the playing with feelings isnt right but I can understand that situation and maybe give a slight insight to at least a possiblity of why

Is it wrong..?

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