Privacy

In a relations shop for almost two years.... I trust my boyfriend but sometimes I have some suspicions... recently although I wasn’t “looking” to find something questionable ... I was curious and saw a pic he liked of a girl and clicked her profile which was public and I see his pic.

The pic isn’t horrible ... I don’t think here is anything romantic.. the pic is of him at a party dancing with two women, one of which was rude to me in the beginning of our relationship...

My issue is the fact that In a “serious relationship” he finds this appropriate ...he admits the pic is not ok ...but feels like his behavior is ok... Without a doubt if the shoe was on the other foot he wouldn’t feel that way ... especially since he never mentioned these people were there... that this pic was taken, He said he is hanging out with the guys... I’m having a hard time with this because I feel that his behavior teaches and shows his circle how much he values what we have ... and the back lash of this is that I’m a stalker ....

I just don’t feel like this behavior is ok... yes I know I looked...then I told him I’ll own my issues .... but if I didn’t see that... he’d have never told me... and I’d be walking around these people looking like boo boo the fool because when he is with me he is one way and when he is out he is that person.. I mean I don’t care that he hang out .. but you hanging out acting like you not in a relationship... just doesn’t feel great... I know it’s wrong to have snooped ... I feel justified because he is suppose to protect me... and he didn’t... I’m torn ..