In law rant

My in laws live in a different state than we do (thank god) and they’re “old school” which really means they have a self righteous opinion about everything. So I don’t particularly like them, but I’ve always been very respectful. Can’t say that I’ve received the same amount of respect back.. anyways I’m due the beginning of April, and they want to visit end of April... fine. It’s your grandchild can’t take that from you. But they demand that we drive them around... what? I have 2 cars that seat 5 only. I’m about to have a family of 6.. so I have other children and you expect me to drive you around so you don’t have to worry about the tolls.... all while just having a baby... AND 3 small children in my home already. My SO and I had a bit of an argument about it.. and maybe I’m being a bitch. But I feel like it’s totally unacceptable and RUDE for them to expect us to drive them around let alone ask. This isn’t a vacation for us. This is bonding time with a new born baby. Am I wrong?