To test, or not to test. Advice

We stopped tracking this last month and have just been ntnp just having some fun. The stress has been a lot of me. My cycles are irregular so it makes it so much more frustrating.

I’ve had some symptoms like sore boobs/ nipples for over 5 days now. Increased cm. It’s all like period signs but stronger and are lasting way longer then usual before af starts.

I know, they say to just test! You guys can’t tell me. I know that.

We’ve been trying for 10 months with no positives yet. I’m scared to test. I just need discuss it and talk with others since I don’t have many close that are aware we’re tying. Thanks ladies.