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I just found out my SO had a gf when we first started talking. He apparently dumped her for me. We’ve been together for a year, I’m pregnant and he treats me really good and stuff but yeah um lol he didn’t tell me he was still with his ex at the time we met. They dont talk now or anything. Just was apparently a secret he didn’t tell me. Does it even matter now?

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To me it does. How long were they together? I’m guessing he doesn’t have kids but history repeats itself and I’d be worried

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I would have a problem trusting him. Yes you’re a different woman than her & no you never told him to leave her but that’s a big secret.

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Something similar happened to me, I met this guy and we went on a couple dates and after our second I asked him to be my bf, the next week he told me he was still “together” with his ex up until then but they were on a break bc it wasn’t working out, and after our second date he broke it off with her. It did make me feel really unsettled (I was making out with this guy who wasn’t even totally single??) but since then he hasn’t talked to her and he’s been very trustworthy! He acknowledged he was stupid haha

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he didn't cheat on her with you did he? like fool around or sex with you? if not I really don't see it being an issue. 
I started talking to this guy while I was still with my ex. and the more we talked the more I realize my ex and myself had fizzled and we where through. I had been on vacation, so the moment I got home I told him I'm so sorry but we are done.

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