Feeling defeated 😕

So last week my husband asked if his mom could be in the delivery room for the birth because she wants to be (don’t know why she couldn’t ask me but whatever- she avoids me all the time) well I told him I don’t feel comfortable with her being in there AND I wanted her to watch our 2 year old during labor and delivery. He was too afraid to tell her, so I sent her a super sweet text message explaining that I only trust her to watch our daughter and she never replied. I know she got it bc she has an iPhone and it said “delivered”. So I tried to explain to my husband that I’m kinda hurt about it because I did what I needed to do and the ball is in her court and I KNOW that when I see her next she will ignore me out of spite. I asked him to ask her when he sees her if she got my text and he’s too afraid because he doesn’t want to bring it up to her. Ugh! It makes me feel so much resentment towards him and I’m about a week or less from having this baby- literally the worst timing. I just feel so sad about it all, this is supposed to be a happy time in our lives. 😔