Hoe or not?

Well yesterday me and this guy we been talking for months but on and off well he started kissing me in his car

And things happen

I gave him oral sex

I feel like a hoe

He fingered me trying to make me lose

And I feel as if I’m not a virgin anymore he was choking me and it was so forceful and he didn’t wanna use a condom he said he would have to buy them so I told him no

Am I still a Virgin I’m 17 by the way I’ll be 18 in July we also went to diary queen and I had to pay for it he kept hitting me and I don’t know but he thought it was

Advice ?