Help with name dilemma please

Ok so I know I’m wayyyy early in the game lol but for years I’ve had it set boy Colton James Teague James is my hubbys middle name because our first is Brooklyn Nicole Teague and Nicole is my middle name and then for a girl Ava Marie. Marie after my hubbys aunt that just died of breast cancer last year. Had this set for a while but my grandpa died in October it was very hard and I was very close to him his name was Nathaniel I’ve thought about doing 2 middle names Colton Nathaniel James Teague but my hubby hates it and wants me to just choose one. He says we’d be torturing the kid in kindergarten having to learn to write that long ass name lol what do you ladies think