My husband, who is away for work for almost the entire month, leaving me alone with our newborn: tells me I suck at cleaning, that it doesn’t take that long and isn’t that hard, I should just ask my mom to help me for an hour and somehow manage to clean the entire house and do laundry in that hour

Also my husband, the week he IS home: sits on the couch and watches me struggle for 3 hours to clean and do laundry because the baby wants to be held and fed and needs changed and doesn’t help me at all

ALSO my husband: mad at me for being upset he “isn’t a mind reader”, mad at me for being “grumpy” after telling me I basically suck at being a mom