UPDATE: Not Telling My Husband I'm TTC

Thank you for ALL the women who responded good or bad. Just to clear things up, we have talked about me wanting a baby when I told him that I was ovulating this week. When he said he doesn't really want one, i said then we need to use a condom or not have sex during this time. He said no he will just pull out. He has only pulled out once. We've been having sex since the start of my ovulation window til the finish. I admit I do feel bad because I haven't sit down and talked to him about why he doesn't want a baby right now and what changed. After sex, he laughs and says "you just want a baby" because I tell him during sex to "cum in me " ( I'm sorry for this verbal information lol). When i said i made sure he finished in me, I didnt try and stop him from pulling out i just encouraged him to cum in me. I understand everything you are ALL saying, and thank you for the comments( yes negative ones too). I realize that I need to talk to him about what has changed from Us TTC to just me TTC.

Oh and thanks for educating me on reproductive rape. That is not at all what I am trying to do.