What could be the reason?


*Reallyyy Stressed & wondering if I’m the problem.*

The last time me and my boyfriend had sex was early February. It’s halfway through April now.

I’ve been trying to get any kind of intimacy from him for these past two months.

I can’t even remember the last time we made out.

I’ve been telling him lately that if we can just do something but he’s always saying he’s busy.

We’re both in college so I obviously get that, we’re both busy and I’m not trying to take him away from school or anything.

But I think that if you want someone you make time for them & now just hanging out I mean intimacy is a factor. Even if its not sex. It could be from kisses to cuddling. But I haven’t gotten that.

I’ve been initiating, but he ends up cancelling, saying no, or he’s just not in the mood for it.

And I don’t know if it’s something with me, like if I’m the problem. If he isn’t attracted to me anymore or if I’m just not good enough.

I don’t even know what I’m doing anymore because I don’t feel any sort of feelings from him.