I have a trauma from my 9 years long term relationship before. We split up coz he was cheating. He even gave me a ring on my last birthday before I caught him that he was cheating. Now I’m Single, I met a foreign guy online and been knowing each other for around 11 months. We already met in person a couple of months ago for a month. Now, I don’t believe on ldr that it doesn’t work anymore these days. I don’t know how to control my thoughts and doubts to other person which I know that everyone’s different. Maybe I’m just scared that historybrepeats for itself. Need some advises.