Husband says the wrong thing

I was crying this morning due to a bad sinus infection. I mean sobbing. I had been up all night. I am so sick. I just wanted to be held by my husband. He asks me "what can you be grateful for though today?"

Like are you kidding me seriously! I am so violently ill on top of Braxton Hicks contractions. I am so warn out.

Come on man just meet me where my needs are and hold me don't get on me about not feeling my most positive self today.

I swear he can be so loving and yet so fricking clueless.