Is it normal?

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So I went to school with a bunch of military wife’s and I noticed A LOT almost all got married very very fast right out of high school and becoming an adult now I also know one girl who has been married 3 times and she’s the age of my husband (22) now I got married young so that’s not what it’s about I just wondered if it’s like thing for them to get married very fast? I see a ton of memes and jokes about it.

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Yes because you get paid more married. I'm a former military wife. We didn't divorce lol he's just out now.

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That’s the reason the divorce rate is so high, it’s not due to 1st marriages it’s due to 2nd,3rd etc if you got divorced once, your chance of divorcing again are higher

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Yes it’s a stereotype

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there’s a huge stigma around young military wives. I live in co springs which is a huge military town so a lot of people I went to high school with got married right after we graduated. 
I also got married after I graduated but that’s bc i’ve been with my husband since 8th grade and I actually know and like him😂 
anyways- all that to say, I feel like the people in the military who get married young and divorced 7 times put a bad rep out for everyone who gets married young so i always feel like I have to defend myself😂

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I'll be 21 next week and about 75% of the people I graduated with are married now. All but 2 are either in the military or are married to someone who is. Me and my husband got married after a year of dating. We got married so fast mainly because of the money and if we didn't I probably would have never got to see him again.

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A lot do yes. I was in the arm buy got out 7 years ago. If you arent married it's hard to stay together when thenonenin is moved all over the country. I personally chose to wait and have a long turm relationship so I was sure I wanted to marry him. We have now been married for almost 10 years. I'm glad I didn't rush into it but for somenot worked out fine and they are still married today others need in divorce. And yes you get a pay bump when your married so some rushed in to it for that and medical benefits for the spouse that wasn't in the army.

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Everyone I know got married before going into the military some were for insurance stuff while the husband was deployed.. others was so the wife could live on base. An they just knew they found the one lol

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Yeah; I think they get money once they get married or atleast my husbands friend did when he first got in a long time ago. So maybe it has to do with money & being able to move off base.

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It's near impossible for them to be with each other without being married. Also, I feel like a lot of them know what they want faster. 
My husband is an Army brat and a lot of his friends are military. A few married fast and a few are still just living their best life. It depends on the person,but a lot of the time when they find someone who will put up with all the bs that comes along with enlistment they lock that down.
My Step mom and cousin were both married within 4 days or so of their high school graduation.
You just can't see them if you're not married really.

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Military? Yes

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