I can’t ~finish~ while he’s inside me?¿

Question

Okay so I’m new to sex tbh, and I just have to know if I’m alone on this-
So I know ladies typically only orgasm from some *pearl stimulation* which that is me 1000%, but I’ve found that even when my boyfriend and I are having sex and he’s in, I like cannot stimulate myself 👀👀
Like, let’s be clear- I’ll be turned on and loving the vitamin D, but for some reason when he’s in me, it’s like I cannot feel my clit and it is WILD. As a result, I can’t finish until he’s fully out. 
Like idk if my pearl is broken? Maybe my cat ain’t about multi tasking??? Maybe I’m still new to sex??? Possibly just crazy? Lmk

Answer

Have you tried using a vibrator while he's inside of you instead of your fingers?

Answer

Relatable! I don't usually fare well trying to multitask either, I don't normally like being penetrated and having clit stimululation. 
And when i do it during sex, which is rare cuz i generally don't like it, it takes away my concentration?- it feels TOTALLY DIFFERENT than touching myself when there's no D.
It's pretty weird. 
I can orgasm doing that, as it turns out, but normally it just takes away from everything and I can't.

Answer

Give it time! Try new things! I was having sex with my boyfriend for almost two years until we really figured things out. 
Things got significantly better for us when we made a list of what we wanted, what we were willing to try, and what we weren't really into. It helped us relax, and he felt much better because he knew he wasn't doing anything I wouldn't like or be enthusiastic about. 
For me, penetration doesn't usually make me orgasm unless we pair some vibrator action with it. You are certainly not alone in that - a lot of women need a lot more.

Answer

mmm maybe you're not gold focusing at both? I'm not sure

I can’t ~finish~ while he’s inside me?¿

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