Empowering yourself!

I used to be in a very toxic relationship. He pretty much completely destroyed who I was and what made me "me". I have began going to therapy to try and overcome the after effects of his abuse. My therapist has been pushing for me to do more for me! When I was with my ex one of the things I had been wanting to do was get my nipples pierced. I am bigger but I have always been pretty confident and I love tattoos and piercings. When I came to my at the time boyfriend he told me that I needed to lose weight before I could get my nipples pierced. This absolutely crushed my confidence and I never got them pierced. Well, after being away from him for over a year and leaving therapy today I decided FUCK IT! I am not going to allow him to CONTINUE to control me and my life or let his comments effect me anymore! So what did I do? YA GIRL GOT HER NIPPLES PIERCED! I am IN LOVE WITH THEM and IN LOVE with the way they make me feel about myself!