Anyone else dating a chronic liar/non communicator

Not even about big things, like small shit that doesn’t even need to be lied about. Like watching porn, how much money he spent on something, like the literally the DUMBEST SHIT!!! And the reason is always “ I didn’t want you to get mad at me” but he WILL NOT tell

Me when he feels a certain way in the relationship until it just blows up into something HUGE. I’m honestly not looking for judgement like “ LEAVE HIM!!!!” I’m just venting and want to know if anyone has been in the same boat. It’s really fucking with my mind and I’m just so confused cause I love the man, but holy shit why can’t people communicate?!?!