Stay at home moms

My boyfriend and I had a serious discussion. He told me he wants to take our youngest out of daycare and have me stop working and stay home with her. I was a stay at home mom for a year when my first was born. When she was 1 (2015) I started working and going to school. When my daughter turned 3 I found out I was pregnant. I stopped working January 2018, had baby in February and continued going to school. I graduated and transferred to a university. I went back to work February 2019 and continued school as well. The plan would be to take online classes, stop working and stay home. With my first, we paid around $2200 for 5 months of daycare. We have done that twice a year for about 3 years now. My baby started daycare so we are paying $5,300 for both of them(for 5 months) My oldest starts kindergarten soon and I will take baby out so we can save money as well. I'm just worried that I will be judged. That his family will think I am lazy because I am not working. I know staying at home is a lot of work and I shouldn't feel this way but I do..