I really can’t stand his ex wife!

Julie Cowan

I know some of you bitter ex wives are going to come for me, but I have to rant.

My husband has given his ex wife over 50k in alimony the past 3 years along with $735 every two weeks direct deposited into her account for child support. Never missed a payment. Any day off he gets the kids. No matter what. He pays for the doctors appointments.. the clothes.. the novelties that not 5% of kids have... sports.. braces.. HE PAYS FOR EVERYTHING.. well a few months ago he had lost his job of 17 years and she went ape shit cause all she cares about is money. Meanwhile he thought it was the greatest thing that’s ever happened to him. Cause now him and I just started our own business. We have more time with the kids and more time together. He also got a new job at half his old salary. So she is so pissed because she won’t get as much. She lives in the country where the cost of living is nothing and we live near down town Nashville. There is a big difference. When they got divorced she had just quit her job to stay at home and try to start a daycare.. while he had just got a raise so the child support reflected that. Well now she is a head teller and makes about 18k less than what hes making now and she has a boyfriend that lives with her part time that never helps her.. that I know of... and she was threatening to take my husband to court so she could still receive the same amount she’s been getting .. the $735 every 2 weeks.. because she was saying she will have to sell her house and she can’t afford her car payment.. THE MONEY IS TO TAKE CAR OF THE KIDS NOT YOUR CAR PAYMENT!! THAT 50k HE GAVE HER WAS TRANSITIONAL ALIMONY!!! TO TRANSITION WHICH SHE NEVER DID... and now bitches to my husband that he doesn’t give her enough... well she was all talk about court so we actually hired an attorney and served her to get the child support lowered to $1

000 a month. WHICH IS STILL A LOT.. for a 12 and 5.. we have them part time and she makes a lot more money now than when it was set a few years ago... we needed it lowered because

he pays for everything else for them.. and he’s making half of what we used to. We’ve just had to move and I got a car so I could get a job and our small business off the ground. well then she was saying I need to help pay the child support.

This was a conversation between her and I..

SHE STILL BITCHES 😂 and now is begging us not to take her to court.

Stupid cunt.

she has nothing to show for from the 50k in alimony.. and 20k from his bonus he was required to give her as part of the divorce agreement.. she got 15% of his bonus for 3 years.. WHERE DID IT ALL GO?!?!?!

she has a Nissan Altima.. is not caught up on bills.. she never buys the kids anything but fast food for dinner when they are with her but she has a full closet of expensive clothes from local boutiques but sends their son to us in high waters and clothes that don’t fit when we send him in clothes that do..

She’s greedy and terrible. I can’t stand her. The kids will see her true colors.. their 12 year old already is. She cusses at them like animals.. we never cuss or say 1 bad word around them... she’s just a rude bitter woman. She needs to get back in her meds 🙄

We are taking her to court.. my husband is a good person.. I want her to get the bare minimum but he agreed to her over the phone he could do $1000 a month no matter what after she was saying she was gonna have to move and I wasn’t there next to him to get him to out his door down. She doesn’t need it!!! SHE DOESNT USE IT ON THE KIDS.. he lets her walk all over him just cause he doesn’t like drama.. but this is my life too. I don’t like her always calling and texting my husband for non related reasons other than if it’s about the kids.. I don’t like her asking me to Apple Pay her for extra things for the kids and then not sending the receipts or when she says she will split it with us and my husband front it all and she never pays him back. I just am so frustrated and want to choke her out