What should I do when feeling guilty...

Question

Soo, me and my boyfriend have lost our virginity’s to each other like a week ago and we’ve only done it 2 times, the day we lost it and just last night. I love my boyfriend so much and I know that he’s the one and one day I know he’s the one I want to be with forever. But here’s the problem... I don’t regret anything we’ve done at all, I just feel so guilty knowing that I’ve done stuff even though I know I shouldn’t have. I’ll go through these phases where I feel 100% ok with everything but then within a couple of hours this big wave of guilt hits me and I feel bad/sad about the things that I’ve done and I just don’t know what to do:(( 
Need advice...

Answer

I felt the same way when I lost my virginity, even though I was with him for two years before we had sex and we’re still together now nearly two years after that. For me, it was a personal conviction because I’m a Christian. I know for a fact that I’m going to get married to him, but it still took me a while to overcome that feeling. I believe it also comes from a place and stigma that’s been set in place by society that we should hold ourselves to a certain standard and that when we have sex, our value decreases or we are forever changed into something or someone else. While it is a big change and experience, you’re still you. Like you said, you don’t regret the fact you gave him your virginity, and I think it comes down to being comfortable with the inside of sex itself. 
It’s late where I am so idk if this made any sense. Just know that you’ll get to a place where you’re more comfortable, and if you don’t then make sure to communicate with your partner so that he understands (:

What should I do when feeling guilty...

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