He can hardly keep it up and his sex drive is hardly there. Anyone had this? and how do you deal with this? It’s been a long time.

Question

Had tests done and all came back fine. But still there is a problem. Says he isn’t stressed atall nor is it me but ofcorse I can’t help and think it could be, I do struggle .

Answer

I felt with this for a long time with my ex. For me, I tried so many things with to try to fix the problem but without putting too much pressure on him. We never figured it out and it definitely played a role in our break up. By the end I was so sexually frustrated. 
Sometimes we tried were- asking him/playing out his fantasies, as long as you’re comfortable with that.
Buying him lube and male sex toys like a fleshlight so he could explore himself and see what worked for him. 
We tried different types of sex and situations. Sometimes it was ok but many times it was a fail.
Don’t feel like it’s you or that you’re doing anything wrong!! I promise it’s likely not you at all. Try to just communicate and talk to him without pressure. I think it’s a touchy subject for them and that makes it even harder to navigate. Good luck!!

He can hardly keep it up and his sex drive is hardly there. Anyone had this? and how do you deal with this? It’s been a long time.

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