Feeling Lonely & Aggy

Feeling like nobody wants me. I know I’m a beautiful girl with a great personality. This guy I’ve been talking to for a few months now definitely contributes to the way I feel at time. I feel like I’m always the one hitting him up to make plans and see him. One time I made plans with him and he stood me up. No call no text no nothing. He finally reaches out to me the following week and his excuse was “oh I was busy with work and my nephew had his birthday party that weekend.” Okay cool I understand your busy and all and I also understand the fact that family and work comes first. But I would of appreciate it if he could of let me know instead of blowing me off. Yes we’re intimate, prior to him It’s been a while since I got some dick on top of the that may of 2019 makes it 1 year since I ended my relationship with my boyfriend of 3 years. So I’m starting to feel like he picks and choose when he wants to deal with me. It’s rare that he reaches out to me. And at times when I text him he doesn’t texts me back. I’m straight up forward when it comes to my feelings and I asked him “is this just a fucking thing? If so let me know so I know how to move with you.” He said “no it’s not, I really like you and I’m feeling you its more than that.” I said “hmm okay.” I’m no fool and I feel like it is a fucking think between us. I’ve know him since 2012 and when we first started talking he said he liked me back in the days but never made a move idk why. Now that we’re involved with each other I feel like he’s not making an effort like how I am. Any advice?