So I need a little advice, I’ll try and keep it as short as possible but apologies if it turns out long winded.

Basically a few year back we had a big fall out with my aunt (mothers sister) her and her partner aren’t nice when they have had a drink and they threatened to ‘smash’ mine and my husbands face in, police were called and we’ve never spoke since.

My mam gradually got back speaking to her and when I was pregnant asked me what to do if she had my daughter and my aunt came round. I told her I didn’t want her around my daughter if she was willing to hurt me I can’t guarantee she wouldn’t do the same to my daughter and my main priority was to protect my little girl.

I’ve just found out that my mam had my aunt over while she was looking after my daughter and didnt tell me about it and I’m absolutely furious.

Am I wrong for being mad about this? My mam surely should have never said to me she wouldn’t allow her around my daughter if she was going to anyway. Am I wrong for not allowing her to have my daughter alone anymore?

I honestly don’t know what to do I love my mam and my daughter loves being there but my aunt is just too unpredictable and I vowed from day one I would not allow my daughter around her, i feel like I’m stuck between a rock and a hard place