Wedding Advice 😬

Basically. My spouse wants a big flashy wedding and I simply do not. Those are our personalities in a nutshell. He’s flashy and expensive and I’m just me, introverted and hates being the center of attention. I’d rather have a bae-cation in Vegas and elope but that’s absurd to him lol. I’m at a lost. Should I just take advantage of the one day extravaganza and suck it up or stick to my guns...Am I being bitchy? Some women would kill for this but I just want to be married. Period...rather if 10 people are present or 200.