Would you be ok with your s/o going to the bar every single weekend with his friends ?

I need thoughts :( I’m always home with the kids , my 2 kids aren’t his biologically his but we been together two years . I would’ve thought by now he would’ve been ready to settle down but he just isn’t he goes and takes my car to work and does whatever he wants after work on the weekend and I’m stuck here with the kids ... he don’t even care about how I feel about it foreal . Yes he let’s me be a stay at home mom but he doesn’t even offer to watch my children so I can have me time unless he’s being sarcastic ... I know these are my babies and I don’t even care to go out but still I thought maybe we could have one weekend where he isn’t out at the bar or with his friends .. I just don’t even know what to do no more .. he doesn’t talk to me with respect or anything .. I’m just tired :(