Mom problems

Is it bad that i don’t like my mom cause she seems to make my life continuously worse like for example I can have an amazing day at school and everything going well then she ask for my phone when I haven’t even done anything wrong then she tries and find something that I can get introuble for and I just hate her so much is it bad that Mother’s Day is coming up and the only reason why I’m hanging out with her is to see my sister whose in college , I’m sorry but I absolutely hate my mother and idk what to do ... ? It’s like I can’t talk to her about anything cause she tells the whole family and in the mornings when she thinks I’m asleep she talks shit about me to my stepdad saying “that child is the devil.” “Shes terrible.” Like do u really think I want to be terrible I’m only terrible to get you back I just hate her so much . Ps for everybody saying oh “talk to her and try and work towards a better relationship .” No that doesn’t work cause she won’t even listen to me , i hate her as a person and so does my step dad Nd ontop of that I can’t even get a job or move out cause she doesn’t allow me out the house I’m not allowed to do anything and when I do sneak out she’s mad and makes me stay home with her .