Advice pls?

Anaya

Hey, this is kinda a long story and it has a lot of different parts so get ready for this.

Okay so in November I was assaulted, it was a friends birthday party and a guy that I had a fling with last year pressured me into having sex with him. I later had a pregnancy scare and the entire experience was honestly traumatic but I am such a stronger person now and it brought me closer to family. Every once in a while I still have feel his hands on me and I kinda miss my virginity but I can't do anything about it now. I see this guy every single day at school. We go to a small school with 50 people in our program and he and I have the same schedule. I blocked him on all social media in around January (we had to sort out the pregnancy scare). My friends already spoke to a couple teachers to make sure I'm not in group projects with him.

He is a typical "frat boy" now and often brags about getting nudes and smoking weed and such. At a point a couple girls tried to report him for underage selling of juuls and drugs but nothing came of it. So basically this guy is bad news and I stay as far away from him as possible because being around him makes me remember shitty things. Maybe around March he told a friend (idrk her but we're team mates) that he feels bad for what happened and he's just giving me space atm which implied that he'd want to talk to me again. Now I'm noticing him becoming more comfortable being around me again and it's not a good feeling. Ex I'll be sitting on a table and he'll come around and sit on the other side. He was kinda shitty to me freshman year which was a huge red flag but he had apologized in the beginning of this year and I forgave him but then he went on to push me to have sex with him after I repeatedly said no. I worry that he'll corner me and apologize (to which I will definitely not speak to him about) again or threaten me.

I just don't know how to face him everyday anymore I'm just tired of it, of being scared of him, of smelling him ugh. I constantly have to hear his voice but I'm not assertive enough to tell him to move or to move myself. Idk anymore honestly anything wld help at this point.

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