RED FLAGS W MY BFS DAD

So I’ve been putting this off for awhile. I’ve been wanting to share my experiences and ask for opinions for so long but I have no one to talk to about it. I live with my bf but we both stay at his parents house rn (we’re saving up for an apartment) we’ve been together for 2 years and I’m 19 he’s 20. When I first met his parents they seemed fairly “normal” really nice and sweet. It didn’t take me long to notice some major red flags with his father on the other hand. We all hang out in what his dad calls his “den” and everytime I go in the room with his dad he try’s to play with my feet (I fucking hate feet and that’s just weird anyhow) so he puts his feet on top of mine and everytime I try to move them he puts them back on me *gross*. He came in our room one day while I was laying on the bed and he sat down and started massaging my feet 😟 Another example is when my bf and I have conversations he listens in and one day I told my bf joking around “I ligit have no boobs” (I was referring to a top I wanted to wear that didn’t look right because I’m small chested) and his father jumped in and said “ I bet your boobs are beautiful baby” like who tf says that to their sons gf. He is always calling me babygirl and I have addressed numerous times that I didn’t like it and it made me uncomfortable but he continues to call me it. He is also very much obsessed with the idea of me having a girl ...when I say obsessed I mean he talks about it non stop and it’s alarming to me. He makes jokes about my thongs because he seen them in the laundry one day. He also told me I’d make a good “domestic goddess”. I’ve talked to my bf countless times and he always hits me with the line “that’s just how he is, he doesn’t mean anything by it he’s just being nice” Am I over reacting or is this weird? I’m so uncomfortable and I’m just ready to move into our own place