Seriously??? Husband rant

Question

Im still recovering from childbirth, preeclampsia, high blood pressure.  Baby will be 1 month next week.  I have to check my pressure a dozen times per day and monitor more closely when it spikes.  At first I didn’t really have symptoms but now I have headaches and some vision changes and dizziness that may just be due to lack of sleep.
Today he says....FYI, I’m going to start back at jujitsu 3 nights per week next week.  He already sleeps double what I do (while complaining about it).  He doesn’t understand why I take issue with this bc he each class is “only an hour”.  With travel and the usual bs it’s easily 2 hrs door to door and I KNOW it will be an excuse both before and after as to why he can’t help w the baby.  No time to feed bc he has to get ready, or can’t change bc he’s achey from class.  
I just can’t even 😬😬😬😬😫👎👊🖕

Answer

You need to let him know that if he’s going to have time for pursuing his interests, that you are going to have time to pursue your interests or at least have time for yourself. That means, if he is provided an hour for jujitsu, then you are provided an hour for whatever you want to do. If he will not agree to that, I would tell him then he can’t do jujitsu because you need to go to couples counseling together and you won’t have time or money for both. You have to be a team when it comes to parenthood, if you begin to feel like you’re not part of a team, then somebody is fucking up and it sure as shit ain’t you.

Answer

He needs to be more concerned about your recovery and helping with the baby this is absolutely rediculous behavior and beyind selfish id let him know how I felt about it (calmly) and then if he insists on still,going then tell him you get to have an hour for yourself 3 days a week as well and that he gets to take care of baby

Seriously??? Husband rant

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