Boyfriend advice
I’m 22 weeks pregnant and I’m still in college. during the semester my boyfriend would always gripe me out about how the apartment is a mess and that I never clean it. We moved into our new apartment in January during the semester and so I didn’t have time to put things up where they needed to be. And he’s constantly telling me I need to get rid of clothes which not all of my shirts will hang up and I had to get something to put my pants in. He has a 9 drawer dresser and I only get 1 drawer (which I use for my bras and socks). I’m going for pharmacy so this semester has been really tough and I had class from 8 to 5 or 6 on most days and I make a 45 min drive to and from class. By the time, I get home, I’m constantly studying or doing homework. He admitted all I do is college. Now that the semester is over I’m able to do a lot more, but he literally does nothing but play video games. I do the dishes every time and he tried to do the dishes once and I later found out he threw away two knives because they had peanut butter on them and he didn’t want to clean it and also a glass food storage container because there was gravy on the sides of it. I also do the laundry all the time. A few times I only washed my stuff because I got tired of him relying on me to do it every time. He eventually washed his clothes when he ran out of clean things, but then threw the clothes on the bed and left them like that. Then when we get ready for bed they’re still there so he’ll just throw them on the floor and I end up having to put them up because he’ll just leave them there. He even said he puts the clothes on the bed expecting me to put them up because he hates putting them up. He’ll leave his dirty clothes on the floor and even in the living room. I feel like his maid. I told him when the baby gets here that I’m gonna need help, but I feel like nothings gonna change. He also doesn’t want to feel the baby move because he says it’ll freak him out. I feel like it’s something special and I want to be able to share this moment with him. I got a few baby clothes (from walmart) and showed him the clothes because I was excited and he made a snark remark about how I said we needed to be saving which I did say that because he blew a total of $1,700 at the casino in 3 trips. I told him yeah that we needed to save for “the baby” and I bought clothes for “the baby.” Any advice?
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