Traveling

My husband got a job offer in North Caroline. I just had my baby and i had get c section. She will be 4 weeks when my husband wants to drive out there. Its a day to get there. I don’t think it’s a good idea to drive that far with a new born. Plus my husband wants to stay with his friend and his family. I told my husband I’ll fly when the baby is 6 weeks or when he finds a place because I’m not trying live with someone I don’t really know.