Not sure if this is normal...

So ladies I can’t find my paperwork from the hospital on what’s normal at this point! Im trying not to go to l&D for no reason really. I’m having pretty bad cramps, non consistent contractions, a TON of pelvic pressure and hip pain, am now I have diarrhea. I was saying I felt like the pressure was like I had to poop but I never had to then I just had a random diarrhea. It didn’t release the pressure though. My first I KNEW i was in labor and KNEW my contractions so I was thinking I should know this time as well. I’m just in so much pain I’m not sure if its just normal or if I should go in at this point.