B-belly & clothing

1 year PP and I know what I need to do to lose weight but it’s on my shoulders that I haven’t made a change. In the meantime I am needing help with what to wear to feel confident about myself. I gained 60lb and ended up losing 30 off the bat and now stuck 30lb above my prepreg weight. Without clothes my stomach falls like an “apron” but with clothes it cuts in and cause a b-belly, fupa, whatever you want to say. I say I have a top tummy and bottom tummy. Forget jeans- they either cut me weird or won’t stay up from the size of my “apron” hips.

Can someone with similar issues give me clothing advice on how to find stuff that fits and flatters? Thanks!