Am I being hormonal or expressing my feelings correctly?!

Am I being hormonal or am I being honest ?

Hubby and I just got into a disagreement about something that REALLY bothers me. When I was pregnant with my daughter , his cousin and his wife were expecting too. EVERYTHING was a competition. Who was going to give birth first, who was bigger, who’s hair was nicer, who’s face was nicer, who’s nose was bigger, everything !! Now I just found out his SIL is pregnant and I said that his mom is going to be comparing the pregnancies again and it gets to me ! He was like why does it matter? Just let them talk and I said because it gets to me ! And we just kept going on and on and I said this is why men never give a crap about women’s feelings and just thing it’s PMS or other problems. Of course I got upset and started crying and he didn’t even care so I shut up and walked away.

Am I just a hormonal crazy woman or do I have the right to be upset ?