They want anal sex , which is painful for the woman. They want oral sex , which is uncomfortable for the woman. Chocking on it and getting lock jaw. They want their nipples sucked and all this , but won’t suck on a clit? I’ve gotten older and realized men are selfish in bed and therefore terrible in bed. Not all, I mean I’ve had a guy who ate me out on a regular even without getting head in return or sex every time. But he’s the only one. I met a guy who I thought was nice sweet. We had sex twice, he asked to see me today and mentioned me sucking his dick. I’m like, okay are you giving it just receiving. He said just receiving. I’m like 🙄 the sex appeal just went from a 10 to below freezing. I had an ex that did everything I named initially and in the end, I hated having sex with him. Because I was getting nothing out of it. I really like this guy but he just turned me all the way off. Smh.

Edit: I’ve heard that anal shouldn’t hurt but we tried maybe ten times and it just was uncomfortable. I think it may have been bearable only twice. I always felt like I had to poop which was an odd feeling and it felt like hot, Like how your skin feels hot when you get a paper cut. We used a lot of lube . But he was also rough and forceful and I could not relax.